My ex has been suing me off and on for three years for sole custody of my son (age 7.) The court is not looking at his medical history of brain damage to the part of the brain where he cannot control violent impulses, his abuse, suicidal and homicidal tendencies, drug use (shall I go on?) They did an "investigation" and said my little one bedroom apartment (I am a single, disabled mother - what do they expect?) is too small and unacceptable for a child to live in. I think I know which way they are going to rule. We have been fighting this for three years, and so far have had 50% disability, with practically everything in his favor.
I am about to make this a major advocacy issue. Because your case sounds similar (child taken away with false charges, yet the father still gets the child, despite what HE is doing to harm the child) maybe we can help each other out? I am trying to get as many mothers together going through what we go through so we can make some NOISE! What state are you in? I am in Calif.